So before anything I’m a trans woman (20), I do not claim to be a real woman or try to put women down or mock them. So please I’d like to ask you to abstein from comments about it because I already know what I am.
I’ve been trying dating apps because they feel safer than just dating people from your daily life when I was a teen (friends and classmates).
I do have a note on my profile that notifies these men about what I am before they can chat with me, some unmatch, others will say bad stuff before leaving, but another big amount stay. Everything goes fine we chat for a long time, we have a few dates, but in the end they all seem to lose interest at some point.
It just makes me so tired of meeting a lot of different men every month. I don’t understand what they want.
Isn’t it natural to date people, and if it’s not a good fit to eventually move on?
Uhhh yes, but maybe I’m confused about why they don’t give signals of not being a good fit untill they stop talking out of nowhere. Maybe it’s my personality I don’t know
The problem is the ghosting. As a cis gendered heterosexual male, I’ve had my share of ghosting dates, but not the amount OP is talking about (100% of them.)