The problem is that I’m 1.60m and I’ve been harassed previously in an airport at broad daylight. That’s why I’m a bit scared to do this but I think I’ll stay by the police department

Honestly I might give up on it, it’s not something that you really need to live 🤷🏻‍♀️

Okay the issue here is, I’ve done this before and it didn’t work. And right now I’m not on a stage where I want to expose my transness to my social circle, what’s most likely to happen if I tell a guy who is into me is that he will be shocked and tell a lot of people. Also there’s barely any men interested in my hobbies unless they’re gay

Why match then? Lol

Uhhh yes, but maybe I’m confused about why they don’t give signals of not being a good fit untill they stop talking out of nowhere. Maybe it’s my personality I don’t know

Honestly? No, my hobbies are gardening, reading and writing, and most guys are into videogames and gym. Like all of them it just feels so stupid how a lot of them like those two things. But at the same time I might not see a man with my same hobbies as masculine, which is a huge turn off for me.

But sexuality is not just a label, and it sounds like internalized homophobia. If you’re attracted to a male of any kind you’re at least bisexual and there’s nothing wrong with it.

Thanks 🫶🏻 something that I noticed that makes them leave a lot is when I ask if they’re bisexual. Because in my mind if they’re willing to have a relationship with a trans woman then they must be bisexual? It’s just an opinion I don’t understand why lose interest just because of that

Uhh no actually I have very bad grammar because I’m not a native speaker, and I’m the opposite of autistic I’m very talkative and social 😅

Thanks for the honesty, yes I know it and it’s understandable. What I don’t understand is why stay several dates?

I don’t know, it does seem dumb but that’s what they do

I haven’t met any man yet who told me he got a lot of matches from older married women, maybe I need more male friends but I haven’t heard much of it 😅

Men do the same, actually even worse because I’ve met a few who are already married 😭

What does take charge mean? I date older men, I’m sorry but if a 40 year old man wants to be taken care of by someone half their age… Sorry but that’s not the kind of man I’m looking for

Hahaha it’s funny why do I always get accused of being AI in all my social media? 😭

No honestly I don’t like compliments, I just have a hard time telling the difference between a fetishistic one and a normal one

I’m very confused, I don’t see where they mentioned my sexual characteristics 😭

But I’m very upfront about the fact that I’m not a sexual person at all, which I know is a turn off for a lot of guys

But a lot of them still stay after all, I get 100 matches a day so there’s very different kinds of men, I still don’t understand why they leave and I think it’s because they have dates with me as a second option while they’re trying something with another person they like more

I’m not really attracted to trans men, but I do know a lot are very handsome just not my type. The thing is, I don’t disclose it directly on my profile, only on that note, so the interactions are like these:

Thanks for the advice, but I already tried when I was a teenager. I only accepted a date from a classmate who later physically hurt me after I disclosed that I’m trans. What I like about the apps is that they can’t hurt me physically they can only say bad things