So before anything I’m a trans woman (20), I do not claim to be a real woman or try to put women down or mock them. So please I’d like to ask you to abstein from comments about it because I already know what I am.
I’ve been trying dating apps because they feel safer than just dating people from your daily life when I was a teen (friends and classmates).
I do have a note on my profile that notifies these men about what I am before they can chat with me, some unmatch, others will say bad stuff before leaving, but another big amount stay. Everything goes fine we chat for a long time, we have a few dates, but in the end they all seem to lose interest at some point.
It just makes me so tired of meeting a lot of different men every month. I don’t understand what they want.
In a comment that you replied to, OP states that “But I’m very upfront about the fact that I’m not a sexual person at all”, and includes a screenshot of a text conversation she has with a match where she mentions it.
The screenshot wasn’t loading for me, so I incorrectly interpreted that it was something she was mentioning on the first date. My bad.