So before anything I’m a trans woman (20), I do not claim to be a real woman or try to put women down or mock them. So please I’d like to ask you to abstein from comments about it because I already know what I am.
I’ve been trying dating apps because they feel safer than just dating people from your daily life when I was a teen (friends and classmates).
I do have a note on my profile that notifies these men about what I am before they can chat with me, some unmatch, others will say bad stuff before leaving, but another big amount stay. Everything goes fine we chat for a long time, we have a few dates, but in the end they all seem to lose interest at some point.
It just makes me so tired of meeting a lot of different men every month. I don’t understand what they want.
I can’t really speak from the women side of things. It sounds like you haven’t met anyone that you’ve really had a spark with?
Dating apps can be tough, especially being trans. I don’t think you’re going about it wrong, it can just take a lot of time to find someone you really like. If it gets too much, don’t be afraid to take a break for a while, use that time to rest and reset.