• Bottom_racer@aussie.zone
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    3 days ago

    Ended up going to stay a day or two more down here as I probs hit a mental limit with care before I get things going again. Finally caught up with me I think.

    Big fight with the ol’ boy last night and I can see he’s reaching his too. It’s all been sorted out today everyone just needs a breather and that’s healthy.

    In unrelated news I took a weed burner to dim sims with little chillies on top on a bbq which was not something on my bucket list but here we are.

    Excuse the magpie poo on the left that’s not my fault.

    We also need a rave choon

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      There’s an idea. The old boy could learn to bbq. That’s acceptably manly, right? Potato salad/slaw and bagged salad come ready to eat so the old girl won’t be expected to make sides.

      I personally disliked my countertop dishwasher but if your olds are less picky than me it could help them.

      (Please take your breaks)

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      I hope some more Bellarine time gives you the chance to relax a bit - you’ve got a difficult situation going on. Taking care of yourself is important too 💛

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      Woof, you definitely deserve a bit of time and space after all that energy going around. That’s great that you have this space to get a breather because it sounds like A Lot. It also sucks to be the only child stepping up (I note crickets around the sibling’s involvement).

      Your little dim sims almost look like dangerous marshmellows. Very cute. I kind of want to try grilled dim sims too. (Also good idea from melbaboutown regarding your dad doing Manly Barbequeing - though it depends on whether you mother can eat that or needs softer foods)

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        Yea only thing bro has done is drop off some shit to eat once that she couldn’t eat lol. Didn’t even see her in hospital. Granted they just had a bubs for the recent hospital stay but ol’ girl has been in and out for over a year so it’s not really an excuse in my mind. When they were over a few weeks ago when ol’ girl just got out, I was explaining the gravity of things and they just didn’t give a shit which annoyed me.

        The eating thing is doing my head in. For over a year now for her it’s supposed to be 6 small things a day and I’m struggling to get just 1 in. Now with the bowel resection and her not eating for that long in recovery and the refusal I just can’t get enough volume of food in. When she was in good shape and sound mind she’d refuse ol’ boy’s bbqs anyway… lol.

        I guess I just feel everything I’ve been trying to do (basically keep her at home and not in a home) has just fallen apart.

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    3 days ago

    Ugh, I’ve been pushing myself through laundry and tidying the place a bit but I think now the CBF factor has won.

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      IKR? Done washing, prepped a silver beet frittata, some roast sweet potatoes and have a risotto in the instant pot. Really should roast the pumpkin I have while the oven is going but the couch is calling

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    First day of new job tomorrow. It should be good but I’m in a bit of a “what if they hate me because I’m not wearing the perfect outfit” headspace.

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    I like to think as an aussie I’m pretty chill in regard to bugs and such but this place is trying me

    Yesterday I saw a big spider walk out of my room, cross the hall and go into another room. Today there was a European wasp in the dunny . Cockroach in the basin, etc etc 😬

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    I am having a lot of trouble just moving today. I have a bad case of the shoulds. Should go to the beach. Should prep food. Should should. Ugh. Step one. Coffee. Bite to eat.

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      3 days ago

      Feeling the same way. Midday has come and I’m still in my dressing gown. Boyo suggested going out for lunch and I cannot think of a single place I want to go.

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      I only emerged out of bed at 12:30 feeling parched and gross. Just going to power through my chores for today - including washing and drying my hair which is A Task - and book my WA flights and call it done. Thank fuck I cleared up the kitchen last night.

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    On one hand, feeling like I’ve been hit by a truck is a good measure of yesterday’s workout.

    On the other hand, fuck this lol

    Edit:

    Gibson agrees staying bed all day is a great idea

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    Ran around all day yesterday, will run around all day tomorrow. Today I putter quietly doing little jobs and recharging

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    Okay all that booze (not even that much!) was not a great idea, shot awake at 3am from a bad dream, couldn’t sleep till 4:30, and now it’s 9 and ughghgh… Should’ve drunk more water. This is why I don’t drink much.

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    I actually managed to get a bit done around the apartment in between naps. I think I am still off from that flu a couple weeks ago. I have loaded up the fridge with vege foods for the week so hopefully that will get the vitamins going. Have a good week everyone.

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      Hope you have a good week too. My entire back is sore for no good reason and I feel like I’m coming down with something rather than recovering from it - I’ll chalk it up to having absolutely no coffee or tea today and all the grog from last night. Gonna have a light dinner of steamed brussel sprouts and a fish fillet… and thanks for the reminder, need to take my weekly vit D and iron tablets. Feels like winter is getting me down but I just need to hold out for a couple more weeks!

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    Ok the drugs have mostly worked, headache has gone from mega to mild. Have put on a load of washing, emptied the dishwasher and put the robovac on in the bedroom. Small wins. Now thinking about lunch.