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  • ᓚᘏᗢ@piefed.socialto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonedifferent rule
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    12 hours ago

    A lot of folk who go to the trouble of changing their first name, be they trans, cis or otherwise, likely have negativity attached to their original name from which they would like to move on.

    Anyone who knew me by my old name and hasn’t been updated of my new name, doesn’t know my new name for a good reason. So on the very rare occasion I get deadnamed these days, it absolutely scares the hell out of me.

    I’m nb and my name change wasn’t specifically for gendered reasons, but for those whose was, being purposefully deadnamed adds a whole new level of hate crime to the situation and puts them at risk of violence from anyone unhinged enough who overhears.







  • So what you’re saying here is that men are so dangerous and violent as a whole, that men need to protect themselves from the dangers of other men…

    But women should stop taking precautions around men and stop constantly complaining about not wanting to get raped and murdered by men, because not all men are violent rapists and it hurts mens feelings?






  • ᓚᘏᗢ@piefed.socialtomemes@lemmy.worldSoy and beans
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    2 days ago

    We’re not all health food and exercise obsessed just because we don’t consume animal products.

    Even the fattest vegans are likely healthier than their equivalently sized meat and dairy consuming counterparts though as processed animal products are carcinogens.


  • ᓚᘏᗢ@piefed.socialtoComic Strips@lemmy.worldSingles are in your area!
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    3 days ago

    And then when a woman is raped and murdered in her hotel room, men like you will be saying that she must have wanted it because she didn’t even take basic precautions to make sure no-one could get in.

    So when women start taking these precautions, because generations of women before them have learnt from experience that when a man rapes you, it’s your fault for not taking precautions… men like you now complain that women are overly paranoid and making things worse for themselves, because their precautions are hurting your feelings.