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  • Well yeah, if you turn down a woman, she’s going to tell her friends about it.
    And those friends probably won’t be interested in starting a relationship with you any time soon.

    Those secret whisper campaigns sound straight out of a teenage movie, and not at all how mature people behave. I’d say you dodged a bullet in that case.

    Your anecdotal experience is not representative of everyone else’s though, and neither is mine.

    I don’t appreciate you resorting to personal attacks to convey your beliefs, so this will be my last reply.


  • Men reject women all the time, with no societal repercussions.

    You have the right to not give someone a second chance, nobody is taking that away from you. I’m just saying the world isn’t always as shallow as your comments portray it to be.

    Rejecting someone doesn’t mean you have decided you can do better, or that you aren’t attracted to them. It means at that exact moment in time you weren’t prepared to enter that relationship.

    If you get mocked for rejecting a woman, you’re either still in school, or need to get some better friends. Because no sane, rational people would ever think less of you for who you do/don’t date.


  • It’s understandable why you would feel that way.

    People change all the time though.
    Perhaps after some of those relationships, they found personality/stability to be more important than looks.

    Or maybe they’ve spent years regretting the decision, and the short relationships along the way failed because nobody could compare to you.

    Or maybe they genuinely are as shallow as you think, and you’re the last resort in the dating pool.

    You can never really know for sure.











  • Well if we say the doctor was getting paid a very generous $300 an hour for that work, that’s $450.
    Plus seeing the front desk person for a few minutes, we’ll give a generous $50.
    So that’s $500 for some very well paid employees.
    We’ll throw another very generous $50 in for the antibiotics, making it $550.
    Double it so the hospital can take a very large cut, and your total is $1100.

    So even leaving massive profit margins with those numbers, you still got ripped off an extra ~$5000.



  • If you’ve ever been in a position where you weren’t able to relicense an entire project as GPL, or were developing for a platform that doesn’t allow LGPL3 libraries to be used because users can’t replace the LGPL3-licensed binary (ios, android, game consoles, proprietary hardware), which I’m sure many people with programming careers have experienced at some point, you’ll quickly find that any copyleft-licensed library is effectively useless to you.
    I would wager that those who have had to deal with that before are much less likely to use a copyleft license for future projects.

    There’s also a lot of small projects where the developer doesn’t care about licensing. They just want the code out there, and for anyone to be able to use it, as long as they get some recognition for making it.

    Most people aren’t lawyers, and don’t care enough to read all the different licenses and compare them all. They pick the simplest one that ensures anyone can do anything with it, and they aren’t held liable for anything.

    Apache is too full of legalese for most people to bother reading. BSD has different versions which make it more complicated to pick which one you want. MIT has much less confusion about versions (there are different versions, but most people associate ‘MIT license’ with the most common one).

    And then the existing popularity helps lock in a license choice once you’ve picked a license category. “If MIT is good enough for ‘x’, it’s good enough for me.”