first-class example of whataboutism, favourite of useful idiots worlwide!
Narri N. (they/them)
I have a trauma-based personality disorder, which sometimes manifests itself in episodes of often uncontrollable bouts of verbal violence. I prefer to direct this to people on the internet (as opposed to actual people), as I don’t wish to be violent towards people I actually care about.
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Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto News@lemmy.world•Trump slams his own supporters as 'weaklings' for falling for what he now calls the Epstein 'hoax'3·4 days agoI actually saw “Don’t Look Up” last year for the first time and let me tell ya, it was too real.
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto News@lemmy.world•Trump slams his own supporters as 'weaklings' for falling for what he now calls the Epstein 'hoax'32·5 days agoThere is no war in Ba Sing Se, you hear me? THERE IS NO WAR IN BA SING SE
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How many times did you and your partner break up before you figured things out? and are you happy now?2·5 days agoi don’t know of anyone having built an actual working relationship from an on-off situation like that. examples of such might exist, but generally i doubt that it’s even possible.
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Am I alone in this feeling?English41·9 days agoI can assure you you aren’t alone in this.
It seems in fact that your girlfriend is right there with you, but like it was already said here I feel you need to communicate it to her in a way that she actually understands that you are trying to limit your news intake because of your mental well-being. Maybe advice her for you and her to try to do it together or something? Like that neither of you would read as much (political/economical) news so that she wouldn’t even feel the need to try to alleviate her panic by sharing it with you, as I’m assuming that’s the reason she’s sharing her panic with you. Then maybe try to spread this “ideology” of sorts to your immediate surroundings, if all you hear there as well is just the doom and gloom of late-stage capitalism. Rather talk about good things, like the inherent beauty of ever-present life if all else fails.
Things that have helped me in the past with my personal mental health problems was to not push myself too hard to achieve beyond my current capabilities. If you feel worn down by everyday life too much maybe you can reduce the amount of physical activity at the moment? Don’t get me wrong running AND exercising 3 to 5 times a week is amazing, especially for a retired person and something I have never been able to achieve, but I still think it’s worth making adjustments as needed. But that’s up to you to decide if you feel that’s something you want to keep up.
Another thing could be community work. Current situation in the world seems hopeless on a grander scheme, but I have personally found much joy in volunteer community work, in my immediate community. I don’t know where you are or what is available to you, but I suggest looking into something like that.
And of course, as you know already, stop doomscrolling. I removed my social media accounts some time ago, but still find myself occasionally mindlessly scrolling the feeds on youtube and lemmy. Which is still just doomscrolling. The short-form video is one of the worst – if not straight-up the worst – drug I have ever tried (and I’ve tried several) for ease of relapse. Maybe look into private DNS providers and internet content blockers if you haven’t already to help you with avoiding the shit that’s out there.
I’m guessing there will be many people in the comments who share your predicament and will have other ways of alleviating, here are some of mine. Good luck!
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto You Should Know@lemmy.world•YSK: If you set up a Lemmy instance, and follow the Docker setup instructions to the letter, it will send lemmy.ml your admin password during the setup process (Edit: Not anymore, it’s fixed now)1·9 days agonow you’'re just doubling down on the bullshit
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto You Should Know@lemmy.world•YSK: If you set up a Lemmy instance, and follow the Docker setup instructions to the letter, it will send lemmy.ml your admin password during the setup process (Edit: Not anymore, it’s fixed now)125·9 days agonah, more like jumping on the bandwagon to shit on anyone conforming our presupposed biases. but sure, whatever
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto You Should Know@lemmy.world•YSK: If you set up a Lemmy instance, and follow the Docker setup instructions to the letter, it will send lemmy.ml your admin password during the setup process (Edit: Not anymore, it’s fixed now)1927·10 days agothere seem to be a lot of typical .world sheep in these comments
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•Radiation is a literal Lovecraftian MonsterEnglish21·12 days agoHas a strange colour: ✅
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•Radiation is a literal Lovecraftian MonsterEnglish35·12 days agooddly enough, Lovecraft’s Colour out of Space kinda mirrors the effects of radiation sickness (with “kinda” doing some very heavy lifting there)
don’t know for sure, was born after it’s collapse so never had a chance to visit. Never been to China, DPRK, Laos, Vietnam or Cuba either because travelling is expensive (thanks capitalism!), but doubt that the people there would bother with shit like that tbh
I am suddenly reminded of an ad for a restaurant in some local city that was something along the lines of: “come sample the taste of the USSR which, unlike their inspirations, actually exist!” Communism is when no food, huh?
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto Palestine@lemmy.ml•Alan Dershowitz Says, ‘If You Want to Destroy Hamas, You Have to Kill the Civilians’English1·15 days agothis what is called a thought terminating cliché, everyone. look it up while you look up something like “debunking every anti-communist argument” on youtube or something. Edit: actually fuck that. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thought-terminating_cliché & https://youtu.be/MjwL1mSrPLA
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto Palestine@lemmy.ml•Alan Dershowitz Says, ‘If You Want to Destroy Hamas, You Have to Kill the Civilians’0·15 days agoIf you want to end wars on earth you have to
kill yourself if you’re participatingoverthrow capitalism ftfy
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What technology will disappear in the next 10 years?English1·18 days agoSocial security and pensions I think.
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto RetroGaming@lemmy.world•So you want to start playing Castlevania games (a giant primer)English1·22 days agoThere’s a typo under Castlevania III: Dracula’s Curse:
This allows you to have more of a “journey” to Drcaula’s castle
Narri N. (they/them)@lemmy.mlto News@lemmy.world•Billionaires’ wealth surged $6.5tn over past decade, Oxfam reports0·26 days agokill 'em all
i’m pretty sure the idea with anticapitalist sentiment isn’t to go backwards anymore, you know?