she, her, etc. (for any one or all of us).

plural, and may use both “we” and “i”. it’s complicated, but “i” is most often by the girl amongst us who does a lot of the feeling emotions and other stuff, as she is most often “at front”.

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that girl (we will call her tani) runs much of the show, and does a lot of the feeling and perception, but a lot less thinking. while most thoughts posted are contributed to by multiple of us, tani’s thoughts in particular are again, more emotional. examples: “we love the pretty views” and “i wanna snuggle our plushies so badly”. the former could be shared across many of us, but for the latter, many of us do not do that direct decision making to begin with; really only tani does.

still, others of us may use “i” too!

all pictures photographed by us and published here are under the CC0 1.0 public domain dedication unless otherwise noted

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  • it is so great to meet with other folk, you go girl!!!

    I have slightly curly hair and have no idea what to do with it beyond shampoo and conditioner every 2-3 days

    our routine often once or twice a week to wash the scalp and hair with conditioner, rinse that out, and then put more conditioner in to act as, well, conditioner! it seems to work well, every couple months or so we may use a shampoo.

    we have used some information from this document: https://docs.google.com/document/u/0/d/1Q6Dj9WAZxlfBhJSyS5on2rw3-if5cOV3oV-dQ3B0AHA/mobilebasic (this link shouldn’t pester you for javascript). we disagree with a lot of the wording, but nonetheless it has been useful.

    really the main thing with our curly hair is to never brush or comb it when it is dry, like ever. it will turn into a frizzy mess. wetting it does go a long way, but even then we really only comb it with our fingers. the only thing we use an actual comb for is our bangs, and they’re so short they might as well be considered straight. to get knots and stuff out, it is easiest (for us) in the shower with some conditioner in.

    curly hair can be tricky, but you’ll get the hang of it, so forth for the other stuff too.

    in short:

    • you probably don’t wanna shampoo that often
    • avoid brushes and combs unless your hair is wet and soaked with conditioner

    best wishes and enjoy yourself <3


  • we just went to that area yesterday!! its very rocky and lots of cliffs on the coast, and super super hilly and forested in the interior.

    many absolutely do live there, and those municipalities marked on your map there are reasonably populated. but the terrain is not super great for building large stuff, and they really do not like deforestation either. it is also farther away from freeway I-5, where most stuff on the west coast is freighted by truck, and is more expensive, at least from our experiences.

    the sunset on the coast is SO pretty though :)


  • nothing in particular has been super eventful, but there is a girl who has been spending a lot of time with us when we eat lunch and so forth as of the week before the last, and who also has the kind of autism where like… she just spends so much time watching stuff on the internet. think like the amazing digital circus. she also has a pet fox and identifies as one (as a therian) herself!! (and yes her fox is cute)

    more about that

    she is super awesome and adorable but we also have like NO idea how to converse with her “properly”. so much of our interactions are just her showing us stuff or vice-versa, and like, what do you comment out loud?? we really do enjoy it, but it also feels super weird when we just can’t think of anything to fill the air, or when she does not acknowledge (verbally or otherwise) lots of stuff we do say! a lot of the time she just stares, and like her eyes are super pretty, but it is also kinda a guess as to what is in her mind.

    this is by no means to knock on her, she is truly great, and we believe her communication style is no lesser than ours. we just are not sure how to engage with such a style is all hehe

    oh also on an unrelated note we have decided to build a motorcycle from some stuff we had lying around our garage or the shop, plus whatever stuff we can scavenge for free locally. we’ve designed and built a go kart before, so, surely this couldn’t be that complicated…? :3







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    9 days ago

    our two cents on this:

    if there are hinges on the rear of the hood, it may just slide up the windscreen, as the screws (or whatever fastener) used to attach them might simply rip out. the planks used as the frame of the hood look to provide a very convenient load path directly towards said hinges, and the not so strong looking mounts they are on. as you said, wood can withstand much compression along the grain, meaning those mounts would be put under very high loads, and probably fail.

    and if those mounts did not fail, the actual sheet of plywood or OSB used isn’t super thick, maybe about three eighths of an inch, or about 10mm if it’s metric? its failure mode would likely involve buckling or it just crumbling into pieces… cars are heavy!

    either way, the windscreen is very strong, and the wood used here is a lot weaker, at least as far as loads on the broad surface go. the most pertinent hazard here seems to be of the hood catching air, flipping up, and obstructing the view of the operator. there do look to be tie-downs here to stop that, but even the non-modified hood of a regular passenger vehicle can absolutely flip up if it is not closed properly! again, the windscreen would likely still protect the occupants, and in the latter case has for many.

    of course, this is all conjecture… much more information would be needed about this setup to come to a decisive conclusion. happy engineering! :)











  • in order from what we most enjoy to least enjoy genetically, body-wise:

    • legs develop muscle like it’s nothing, and fat goes there too with ease
    • very big, uh, rear end
    • quick breast development
      • didn’t start HRT super long ago, but breast development was noticed like literally two weeks after starting
      • family has VERY large breasts, to the point size reduction surgery was needed to relieve back pain for an aunt
      • also a bra is a must for us. bike rides without them are uh interesting to say the least (currently C cup size per a chart, more so B in reality)
    • femme looking face/eyelashes/jawline
      • we passed before starting HRT, but still helpful!!
    • long legs compared to torso
      • women’s tops still fit us well despite our height, plus sexyyy
      • thigh highs are hard though
    • voice wasn’t super deep, not exactly high pitch albeit certainly above average
      • has been very helpful in achieving a passing voice
    • pretty tall stature
    • body metabolizes nutrients insanely quickly
      • estradiol has helped a little, but not too much
      • has led to very low body weight (this can be bad!!!)
    • fairly large feet
    • SO much body hair to contend with
      • hormone therapy has helped a crazy amount, making hairs whiter, thinner, and grow slower thankfully
    • on HRT, our body can BARELY regulate temperature
      • our sister actually has to take a medication for this.
    • skin was eating itself alive, estradiol solved that though