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  • artyom@piefed.socialtoPrivacy@lemmy.worldbring your cool friends here :D
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    2 hours ago

    It’s of course best to avoid ranting about stuff that will make you sound like a conspiracy nut

    When you ask them to do this, the next question will be “why?” and I don’t know another way to answer that.

    I’ve gotten comfortable enough to tell them I don’t use that stuff. Sometimes I joke and say I’ll give you my email. Most take it.

    So it sounds like you probably never speak to those people again.

    By the way, what is your preferred platform for private communication?

    SimpleX


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    3 hours ago

    if they’re good relationships, they will understand

    Sure, what about not “good” relationships? What if you meet a new person and they say “hey, you seem like a cool person, we should get together again, what’s your #?” and then you launch a tirade about the oligarchy and Edward Snowden and these people suddenly don’t want to talk to you ever again.

    I’ve said this before, but the way I handle this is a sort of self-hosted linktree style site: firstnamelastname.com, that has all of my contact info, in order of personal preference, and let them choose. That’s about the most I can commit to.