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Cake day: July 6th, 2023

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  • Herzlichen Glückwunsch!

    Und ne, 12€ hat’s bei mir beim abholen noch gekostet, da bekommt man dann einen beglaubigten Auszug von dem Eintrag im Melderegister…

    Manche Sachen wie zum Beispiel Perso oder Führerschein kosten halt nochmal extra, 40 bzw 50 Euro in meinem Fall, Krankenkassenkarten o.ä. kann man normal einfach neu anfordern.

    Und ja die Euphorie wird nochmal besser wenn man dann tatsächlich die neuen Karten in der Hand hat oder korrekte Post bekommt, da darfst dich schon mal drauf freuen ;)




  • Schumus@lemmy.worldtoTransfem@lemmy.blahaj.zoneUnlocking bottom dysphoria
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    5 months ago

    I’m sometimes still a little dysphoric about my dick too, especially because I can’t wear some of the cutest clothes I want without having the feeling of presenting it to the whole world and it always being in the way, sticking out, hurting from tucking it away, but I lost interest in getting bottom surgery after realising it’s not a decision between penis and vagina, but a decision between penis and an open wound you have to dilate every single day for the rest of your life so it doesn’t grow shut… So I guess I just learned to deal with it because that thought scares me so much more…

    Some girls just have a penis I guess



  • Ah damn, I’m in southern Bavaria and had luck getting an appointment in half that time. Don’t forget you also need an “Indikationsscheiben” from a psychologist for getting hormone treatment.

    But anyway, hormones are not everything and there are many steps on the way that you can do yourself like learning makeup und amassing a female wardrobe and most importantly finding the courage to open yourself up to the world and just being yourself, something unfortunately you have to do yourself. Find allies, especially female ones because they always sort out clothes from time to time, almost my whole wardrobe is second hand 😄