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Cake day: July 7th, 2023

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  • I don’t think we ever really know our own traits. We have psychological defense mechanisms that prevent us from thinking that we’re the problem.

    Awareness helps. If you are reflecting and thinking about how could I have dealt with this situation better? You may be able to find toxic patterns in your own behavior that you previously wrote off as “People always overreact when I tell them to do things!”

    A good place to start is the old saying “if you ran into one asshole, he’s probably an asshole, if EVERYONE is an asshole, you’re probably the asshole.”