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Cake day: June 10th, 2023

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  • I think that depends on country…

    “Cyclists should give way to pedestrians on shared use cycle tracks and to horse riders on bridleways.” - nope, you hear a bell you dodge as they’re not slowing down. Happens every time I use a shared path.

    “Only pedestrians may use the pavement. Pedestrians include wheelchair and mobility scooter users.” - nope, we get plenty mounting the pavement illegally; again, you hear a bell and you dodge. Happens 1–2 times a day on my trip to work.

    I reckon people in a hurry just bend the rules more readily than people taking their time.




  • So, long (long) term gamer here. Case in point, partner went out for dinner with a friend so I just sunk 6 hours into an old favourite (a game older than my students).

    A relationship is a two way street - sometimes you do need that space for a solo hobby, other times your partner needs you. You find that balance, but not always.

    Sometimes a partner wants too much alone time, sometimes they never let you be alone. Neither of partner is a bad person, it’s just a difference found in people.

    The best advice is to have a chat, negotiate a little, find a middle ground where you’re both happy. My partner wanted a bit more physical affection, I wanted a bit less verbal, we found a happy mix. If you’re burning for a talk, maybe write down what you want to say to get your thoughts clear, think about your wants and needs, then have a friendly chat over tea (or video game genocide - you’d be amazed).