• Chaotic_Altruist@lemmy.zip
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    3 days ago

    Also just as possible nobody believes her bullshit cause most of us have had parents like that. Don’t let it defeat you.

  • kboos1@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    I’m confused.

    Are you saying that she has a good point? What’s the goal of sharing this? Are you say that you are not a useless piece of shit and a burden? Are we witnessing you have an epiphany?

  • Spacehooks@reddthat.com
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    2 days ago

    Happens but there are occasions where ppl disagree with op. Not very common but normally op is very misguided or just an idiot. I got into a discussion where another person knew based on the verbiage the guy was wrong but we only knew for sure a year later when his wife posted her side.

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    2 days ago

    There’s no sides.

    It’s just a matter of what you did that was out of line, and what she did that was out of line. The amount of useless pieces of shit on this earth is probably less than 3% and I have a hard time believing you’re one of them.

    The things you said about your mom clearly indicate she stepped over the line quite a few times and you are absolutely right to feel misunderstood and sometimes attacked.

    If she posted here she would probably also indicate that there’s a few times where you treated her wrong.

    But she’s your mom, she should know better, and also if you’re fighting a lot things happen, and people do regrettable things. As long as you question whether you did the right thing, you’re fine and you probably have done well.

    What I’m trying to say is it doesn’t matter what she thinks, t doesn’t make your feelings less valid.