I get the alcohol thing a lot too because I make a lot of ketones naturally and celiac can also mimic some of the physical signs of alcohol. Thing is, I CAN’T drink alcohol bc I have a gene that basically means I’m on an MAOI at all times - I would get a brain bleed and die if I drank. I get blood spikes and migraines from freaking too many beans or meat. It’s probably why I’ve never liked alcohol to begin with.
Women doctors have NEVER given me real pain control for endometriosis pain, even in the ER. After my surgery (which I woke up during and literally it was as painful as the periods I’d been having), I was given 3 days of opiates and then nothing (took 2 months to fully heal, was extremely painful for 2 weeks).
Meanwhile, one male ER doctor DID give me Robaxin one time as a muscle relaxer, and it was AMAZING. It took off that sharp edge of pain. I think he was very concerned about undoing stereotypes of male doctors and women’s health. Love him, he is a good guy
I had a female doctor who loved to tell me I was too young to be experiencing the things I was experiencing. Like I had neck pain from an incident at work (which has been ongoing for like 10 years now) and she said “oh young people just look at their phones too much”. I also had a reaction to a piercing and she was insistent that the problem was “piercings and tattoos are bad for you”, yet when I swapped the ring out for a hypoallergenic one (no thanks to anything she had to say to me), it cleared up extremely quickly.
But anyway, she was at least able to diagnose my PCOS, which a male doctor had prematurely diagnosed as “pregnant” so that was nice.
What’s PCOS? And we need laws to make doctors actually do their freaking jobs. I mean its not the middle ages, we have the tools to diagnose people properly.
It’s the hospital administration and insurance companies that are the issue, not the doctors themselves per se who are responding to insurance denials and impossible hours and scheduling.
I want to emphasize that insurance does not function to GRANT healthcare but to DENY it. Doctors grant healthcare as providers. When they prescribe it, they’ve granted it. Then insurance steps in and says, “wait a minute.” Their only function is to deny medical care. Not pay for it - the patient does that through premiums etc. To deny it. So why do we need a healthcare DENIAL system?
The answer for why corporations need private insurance denials, is because of Hot Coffee, Bleeding Edge, Erin Brokovich - we could class action sue over the bad and contaminated products companies sell us, because it would be able to be detected. Flint, MI, was caught by testing a kid on Medicare - because they have access to healthcare. The FDA, USDA, etc should actually pay for Medicare for all to GUARANTEE their work in making sure products are safe imo. Why should I have to pay for the government’s failure to do their job? They should guarantee it and track it so they can do their jobs.
But corporations would lose money so they lobby against it. Gotta sell us that asbestos and lead somehow.
That the biggest thing that pisses me off the most. I am studying to get my insurance license. And the classes they talk big how great insurance is, because at its core it is supposed to a transfer of risk. That all the job of insurance, only reason it exists is for them to protect you in case of a loss. Yet we pay for health insurance and all they do is use our money to find ways not to cover us. Bullshit and I wish we could put a stop to it and offer universal healthcare.
Polycystic ovarian syndrome. Essentially, my uterus started making little cysts for fun and also my testosterone went way tf up and bad things that accompany high testosterone happened so I didn’t have my period for six months. The male doctor said “oh you’re just pregnant, get some bloodwork to confirm, and also you need to start taking prenatal vitamins” despite the fact that I had taken multiple pregnancy tests that were negative and hadn’t had unprotected sex in that time period.
Fun fact: PCOS affects an estimated 6–13% of women of reproductive age, and up to 70% of cases are undiagnosed. (WHO)
That’s crazy, thank you for sharing. I have issues with doctors not wanting to anything for my issues too. And I am a male. I swear we need better Healthcare. Hard enough being in a country with shit healthcare, but when we do go to a doctors they push all our concerns aside and think we are just wasting their time.
For better or worse, if you weren’t fat they wouldn’t diagnose you properly either. I’ve been diagnosed with:
•Too skinny (this is particularly funny bc the complaint was fainting and both the low weight and fainting are from hyperthyroidism as I now know)
•Too tall
•‘this is normal for young women’ (if it were they’d all be unable to work traditional job)
•Psychosomatic ailment (depression on my medical record is the bane ofy existence)
•Just unlucky
•‘this must be an unknown symptom of your existing illness’
•Lacking exercise (I do 2 hour long swims a week and walk 3-5k every weekday)
•Probably lying about the amount I drink (both water and alcohol)
I get the alcohol thing a lot too because I make a lot of ketones naturally and celiac can also mimic some of the physical signs of alcohol. Thing is, I CAN’T drink alcohol bc I have a gene that basically means I’m on an MAOI at all times - I would get a brain bleed and die if I drank. I get blood spikes and migraines from freaking too many beans or meat. It’s probably why I’ve never liked alcohol to begin with.
Is this problem with only having male doctors, or do women doctors pull this bullshit too?
Women doctors have NEVER given me real pain control for endometriosis pain, even in the ER. After my surgery (which I woke up during and literally it was as painful as the periods I’d been having), I was given 3 days of opiates and then nothing (took 2 months to fully heal, was extremely painful for 2 weeks).
Meanwhile, one male ER doctor DID give me Robaxin one time as a muscle relaxer, and it was AMAZING. It took off that sharp edge of pain. I think he was very concerned about undoing stereotypes of male doctors and women’s health. Love him, he is a good guy
Glad you found a good one. I still haven’t found one worth a shit.
It was one ER visit, don’t get ahead of yourself here
I had a female doctor who loved to tell me I was too young to be experiencing the things I was experiencing. Like I had neck pain from an incident at work (which has been ongoing for like 10 years now) and she said “oh young people just look at their phones too much”. I also had a reaction to a piercing and she was insistent that the problem was “piercings and tattoos are bad for you”, yet when I swapped the ring out for a hypoallergenic one (no thanks to anything she had to say to me), it cleared up extremely quickly.
But anyway, she was at least able to diagnose my PCOS, which a male doctor had prematurely diagnosed as “pregnant” so that was nice.
What’s PCOS? And we need laws to make doctors actually do their freaking jobs. I mean its not the middle ages, we have the tools to diagnose people properly.
It’s the hospital administration and insurance companies that are the issue, not the doctors themselves per se who are responding to insurance denials and impossible hours and scheduling.
I want to emphasize that insurance does not function to GRANT healthcare but to DENY it. Doctors grant healthcare as providers. When they prescribe it, they’ve granted it. Then insurance steps in and says, “wait a minute.” Their only function is to deny medical care. Not pay for it - the patient does that through premiums etc. To deny it. So why do we need a healthcare DENIAL system?
The answer for why corporations need private insurance denials, is because of Hot Coffee, Bleeding Edge, Erin Brokovich - we could class action sue over the bad and contaminated products companies sell us, because it would be able to be detected. Flint, MI, was caught by testing a kid on Medicare - because they have access to healthcare. The FDA, USDA, etc should actually pay for Medicare for all to GUARANTEE their work in making sure products are safe imo. Why should I have to pay for the government’s failure to do their job? They should guarantee it and track it so they can do their jobs.
But corporations would lose money so they lobby against it. Gotta sell us that asbestos and lead somehow.
That the biggest thing that pisses me off the most. I am studying to get my insurance license. And the classes they talk big how great insurance is, because at its core it is supposed to a transfer of risk. That all the job of insurance, only reason it exists is for them to protect you in case of a loss. Yet we pay for health insurance and all they do is use our money to find ways not to cover us. Bullshit and I wish we could put a stop to it and offer universal healthcare.
Polycystic ovarian syndrome. Essentially, my uterus started making little cysts for fun and also my testosterone went way tf up and bad things that accompany high testosterone happened so I didn’t have my period for six months. The male doctor said “oh you’re just pregnant, get some bloodwork to confirm, and also you need to start taking prenatal vitamins” despite the fact that I had taken multiple pregnancy tests that were negative and hadn’t had unprotected sex in that time period.
Fun fact: PCOS affects an estimated 6–13% of women of reproductive age, and up to 70% of cases are undiagnosed. (WHO)
That’s crazy, thank you for sharing. I have issues with doctors not wanting to anything for my issues too. And I am a male. I swear we need better Healthcare. Hard enough being in a country with shit healthcare, but when we do go to a doctors they push all our concerns aside and think we are just wasting their time.
Being told “You’re too young for cancer,” in an appointment when I never brought up cancer in the first place was like a gut punch
I had a female doctor, when told my joints hurt so much I couldn’t use my hands for basic tasks, say to me “Well what do you want ME to do about it??”
Lol I swear to God I’ve told doctors my symptoms before and their face looks like they’re thinking “Holy fuck, you should tell a doctor about that.”
I got kind of the opposite of that at the hands of a male doctor. “You can’t have Long Covid, only women get it.”
But the female doctor I got after that wasn’t much better. Third female one is at least taking me seriously.
To have the fun of experiencing what doctors are like when you have a chronic illness play You’re Just Imagining It.