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when i first heard about the male loneliness epidemic i was like oh yeah close camaraderie and bonding between men is often discouraged in favor of competition or, if not discouraged, at least filtered through a lens of individualism that precludes deep connections. and then i learned what people meant by it (men arent getting laid) to which i say skill issue

to all the men out there not getting laid: try less hard to get laid and try more hard to be an enjoyable and relaxing presence

    • Flamekebab@piefed.social
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      2 months ago

      Actively wanting to date someone less intelligent than oneself feels like predatorial behaviour.

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      I can’t believe people are downvoting you, I totally heard something similar about some guys who don’t like dating women who make more money than they do… It’s just kinda funny to see “PhD” sticking out like that…

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      She has higher education -> She earns more -> “She can’t be earning more than me, I’m supposed to provide for the household!!!”

      I assume it’s something along those lines?

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        2 months ago

        Perhaps it’s a self worth thing. If she’s making more than you, what reason does she need to keep you around if someone else comes along?

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      I haven’t got along well with any of the women with PHDs I’ve known but it wasn’t a very large sample size for me to write them off as a whole. If I ran into too many more that had the same personality type as the ones I met I might consider it though because they were frustrating to be around. It wasn’t that they were smarter than me, it was that they wouldn’t even listen to me on subjects I was more knowledgeable about.