Have you ever been excluded by peers in after work activities or just been excluded by people in times making you feel isolated? How did you deal with those emotions?

Spectre@lemmy.ml · 3 months ago

Have you ever been excluded by peers in after work activities or just been excluded by people in times making you feel isolated? How did you deal with those emotions?

Spectre@lemmy.ml · 3 months ago

What conclusion did you arrive as to why you were excluded in school and kindergarden?

haui@lemmygrad.ml · 3 months ago

An amalgamation of incompatibilities which are my material circumstances:

mixed migrant family
strong abuse cycles in said family
weak theory of mind and social empathy, strong mirror neurons
exceptional reasoning and associative thinking skills but bad memory
no real gender appropriate mentor (in my case, no father figure)
extraversion

Can you imagine how that is a cruel cocktail?

Spectre@lemmy.ml · 3 months ago

Would you say then that racism and or colorism was a big one?

haui@lemmygrad.ml · 3 months ago

Oh, no. I didnt mean mixed skincolor but mixed as in two different so a hugely different culture on my end.

Therefore, racism was definitely a factor but not colorism. My parents also didnt teach me proper cultural awareness so the situation was the perfect clusterfuck.