Grimreaper@sopuli.xyz to Ask Men@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 month agoDo you feel horrible when your girlfriend pays for the dates, trips, etc.?message-squaremessage-square26linkfedilinkarrow-up125arrow-down111file-text
arrow-up114arrow-down1message-squareDo you feel horrible when your girlfriend pays for the dates, trips, etc.?Grimreaper@sopuli.xyz to Ask Men@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 month agomessage-square26linkfedilinkfile-text
If your girlfriend makes a lot more than you, and she pays for your dates, trips, etc., do you feel bad about it or no?
minus-squarevrek@programming.devlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·1 month agoThis may be controversial but if she offers, then no but if need to go to her for help somewhat. Like if my girlfriend was like “hey, let’s go to Vegas for the weekend and relax” I’m happy and would agree. If it was me going to her "I don’t have enough money for my rent this month can I borrow $500"then I would likely feel bad. But same would go for any friend, sexual/romantic or anything else wise.
This may be controversial but if she offers, then no but if need to go to her for help somewhat.
Like if my girlfriend was like “hey, let’s go to Vegas for the weekend and relax” I’m happy and would agree.
If it was me going to her "I don’t have enough money for my rent this month can I borrow $500"then I would likely feel bad.
But same would go for any friend, sexual/romantic or anything else wise.