• PandaParent@lemmy.ca
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    6 months ago

    Men can certainly get better at conversation. I can’t count the number of dates I’ve had where a guy talked for hours about himself and never asked a single question about me. Great way to make sure the first date is the last.

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      6 months ago

      As a guy who has been on plenty of dates, I can tell you that there are also plenty of woman who are like that. I suspect that the datingpool in general is saturated with people who are like this.

  • Mac@mander.xyz
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    6 months ago

    if we don’t accept ourselves first, if we don’t say it’s okay to be me, then we’re never going to believe that it’s going to be okay to go up and talk to somebody and share ourself with somebody.

  • dwindling7373@feddit.it
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    6 months ago

    I’m not sure but surely they can be better at coaching: “The thing that we don’t know, that we don’t realize, is that intimacy is not just sex.”