Yeah, and that’s kind of crappy. People in a loving relationship won’t be treating each other the same way one treats a one night stand, just using each other to masturbate. If you can do that to someone you say you love, I don’t think you love them.
medical reasons
Not relevant. When discussing techniques for the application of hair products, those with alopecia are not relevant. Someone who is medically differentiated like that has a completely different start and goal point from the average person and has to be approached completely differently.
social reasons
Not totally certain what you mean, but I’m guessing psychological or interpersonal. If it’s psychological, that’s medical. If it’s interpersonal, that’s the exact thing I’m talking about.
Using a vibe or something isn’t ‘bad’ (morally) so much as it is a ‘bad sign.’ (red flag) If your friend came to you and said ‘I enjoy talking with my boyfriend, but only when there’s someone else in the conversation’ or ‘but only when I’ve been drinking/getting high,’ or something else where they only seem to enjoy the interaction when they have some sort of external force modifying the experience, would you think their relationship was healthy? I would not. It might not be a horror show the way some others are, but it could be better.
If you can do that to someone you say you love, I don’t think you love them.
What? You have serious problems if you believe that. I don’t get what you’re saying. I’m saying using a tool for mutual masturbation (or one at a time) is the same as classical normal masturbation of each other. Both are acceptable and normal in a relationship.
Not relevant. When discussing techniques for the application of hair products, those with alopecia are not relevant.
It does when it’s frequent. Also, you’re the one making a generalization, so if you don’t specify, that’s on you
As for your last paragraph, well I don’t see any link with what I said. Unrelated
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Yeah, and that’s kind of crappy. People in a loving relationship won’t be treating each other the same way one treats a one night stand, just using each other to masturbate. If you can do that to someone you say you love, I don’t think you love them.
Not relevant. When discussing techniques for the application of hair products, those with alopecia are not relevant. Someone who is medically differentiated like that has a completely different start and goal point from the average person and has to be approached completely differently.
Not totally certain what you mean, but I’m guessing psychological or interpersonal. If it’s psychological, that’s medical. If it’s interpersonal, that’s the exact thing I’m talking about.
Using a vibe or something isn’t ‘bad’ (morally) so much as it is a ‘bad sign.’ (red flag) If your friend came to you and said ‘I enjoy talking with my boyfriend, but only when there’s someone else in the conversation’ or ‘but only when I’ve been drinking/getting high,’ or something else where they only seem to enjoy the interaction when they have some sort of external force modifying the experience, would you think their relationship was healthy? I would not. It might not be a horror show the way some others are, but it could be better.
What? You have serious problems if you believe that. I don’t get what you’re saying. I’m saying using a tool for mutual masturbation (or one at a time) is the same as classical normal masturbation of each other. Both are acceptable and normal in a relationship.
It does when it’s frequent. Also, you’re the one making a generalization, so if you don’t specify, that’s on you
As for your last paragraph, well I don’t see any link with what I said. Unrelated