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minus-squarediscostjohn@programming.devlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·4 个月前I think I responded to the wrong person initially, but can I ask why saying “bud” is bad?
minus-squareFeathercrown@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·4 个月前Because you’re using language to try to “win” an argument simply by infantilising the opposition.
minus-squarediscostjohn@programming.devlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·4 个月前To tell someone to chill out. I could have said man or pal or friend, but I chose “bud” this time. I don’t think it’s an infantilizing term at all
minus-squareFeathercrown@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·4 个月前Hmm, ok. Bud can come off a little condescending but I see you meant no ill will.
minus-squarediscostjohn@programming.devlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·4 个月前To be honest, I see your point now. Thanks for working through it with me
minus-squareFeathercrown@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·4 个月前I’m glad you approached my rather negative comment with such a genuine attitude, it reminds me I should be more charitable when interpreting people’s comments on here. Thanks for a good discussion 🫡
I think I responded to the wrong person initially, but can I ask why saying “bud” is bad?
Because you’re using language to try to “win” an argument simply by infantilising the opposition.
That’s not what happened
What was your goal then?
To tell someone to chill out. I could have said man or pal or friend, but I chose “bud” this time. I don’t think it’s an infantilizing term at all
Hmm, ok. Bud can come off a little condescending but I see you meant no ill will.
To be honest, I see your point now. Thanks for working through it with me
I’m glad you approached my rather negative comment with such a genuine attitude, it reminds me I should be more charitable when interpreting people’s comments on here. Thanks for a good discussion 🫡