Fetlife is mostly a good way of linking in with the local kink community, which tends to be full of queer, nerdy, neurodivergent folks. Culture may vary by area. But fetlife is mostly good for finding out what kink events are near you, so its probably not a bad option

What the fuck…? As someone with a circadian rhythm disorder I didn’t know things could get any more fucking bleak. Parks, libraries, stores, doctors are all closed, but fucking WEBSITES?? Christ.

People should probably look the guy up before jumping in to defend him 😅 I just looked through some of his stuff and uhh…

Dude seems like a piece of shit 😅

This could be interpreted charitably, but given the previous one I’m not especially inclined to do so

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While that take is clearly unpopular, kinda the whole western world does. Sometimes we like to pretend its really just the US, and gloss over the fact that european colonialism and imperialism happened.

Theres a certain brand of racisim that flourishes in places where there is higher racial homogony, and it may be quieter, but it’s very real. You see it in the northern states in the US that are like almost entirely white where people have basically never seen a black person, and you see it plenty in europe.

The afd exists as a modern day party 😅. If someone said the US has a racism problem no one would reply with “thats a generalization”. Anywhere racism exists has a racism problem. And that certainly doesnt exclude europe.

Le epic

Such owned

Cool as fuck, thanks for posting!

I mean, even if they know it very few other people do so it wouldn’t really be a helpful headline that informs the public what the article is about…

I appreciate you teaching me a new word though :)

Thats cool as fuck! It’ll be nice when my client supports it ☺️

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Brb gotta go get diagnosed with sleep apnea

I think there’s a difference between personal change and growth and cultural change and growth

I’m trying to undergo some really important change and growth for my wellbeing and its REALLY uncomfortable.

That being said queer culture isnt entirely shaped by comfort, lots of the change in queer culture is shaped by the problems queer people experience in the world and want to do something about. And its comfort and community that provide the space in which that change can manifest. But it is still, in a way, brought on by the discomfort.

I’m not saying thats what the meme is about though. Its about challenging yourself to step outside of what feels easy and comfortable when thats not serving you. I guess in some people’s cases queer people choosing to step into that place and allow themselves to identify with a new culture and new group of people may often fit that pattern though. It may not be entirely comfortable for them to navigate this newly realized aspect of themselves and deal with its consequences, but it may bring new positive things when they do :)

I’m glad its helpful ☺️☺️

The app hasnt been perfefctly polished in my experience but its generally worked more than well enough for my use case

Hope you have a lovely day friend ☺️

That is an absolutely wild addage

Flare on f-droid might also be worth trying out depending on what you’re looking for :) not sure if it’d be for you but thought I’d put it on your radar

I believe mastodon instance would need to federate both with the solarpunk server op is posting from and lemmy.world, and then you’d find the account that essentially is this community and mirrors activity from this comm as though theyre individual mastodon posts, and you’d need to find the right one and hit boost

Maybe theres an easier way. You may be able to post to this comm from your mastodon account to establish the link

I’d be curious if someone more knowlegable could chime in with a better understanding

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I mean rich helps but like, I feel like having the legislature and some amount of the Justice department buy into his plans to massively consolidate power since it will make them keyholders and give them power also is a pretty significant factor 😅

That’s why midterms are so important. And why trump is trying desperately to wrestle control over them away from states and pass a MASSIVE votter suppression bill.

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Welcome, we’re glad you’re here! ❤️

Did Alton brown reccomend against graters? I definitely am unlearning an amount of his teaching to never ever use more singular task tools. Sometimes theyre helpful!